Friday, July 5, 2024

Not just Title but Temprament too!

                                                

 









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“I have seen toughest of the men crumbling under pressure & that’s normal; special is, being able to be normal under pressure, that’s what champions do”… Vince Lombard.

Indeed, these words from the great American Football coach flashed in my mind when team India lifted the T20, World-Cup Trophy on 29th June midnight (India time). There are three moments in the history for sure when the entire country’s citizens felt like having their heart in the mouth when the ball was lifted in the air; first one I haven’t witnessed or experienced as I was away from TV or Radio, it was in 1983 when Viv Richards lofted Madanlal over midwicket. Second time was in 2007, final of T20  World Cup when Misba Ul Haq lobbed Joginder Sharma which I did experience as I was watching that match & after 17 years once again entire nation’s heart was in mouth on 29th June’s midnight when David Miller lofted Hardik Pandya in the finals of T20 World Cup of 2024! On all the three times, the catch was taken & heart went back in place though this time it has nearly fallen on the ground & just before it hit the earth, a miracle named Suryakumar Yadav held it & placed it in its rightful place!  If you think this is over-dramatic then sorry, as actually my words couldn’t ever come 10% near of the situation which we all (obviously the cricket lovers) experienced in reality, ask any of the Indians!

Ok, the sharing is about cricket but not to describe about how great the game is & popularity as in this country there are many numbers of cricket haters too, so with due respect the sharing is about  the final played in T20 world cup between India & S.Africa but it’s about the game or say sports & temperament which I experienced  & more than that winning attitude, so even cricket haters also can read ahead & this is applicable to any game, even to the game of life too! I am deliberately not mentioning any details before that final & if  India hasn’t lost a game before that in the tournament but then so did S.Africa too, in a way it was a clash of equals & all those who say cricket is not really an international game , I won’t defend but just mention a few facts. This world cup, there were nearly sixteen teams which included USA, Netherlands, Scotland, Afghanistan too & there were major upsets, with strong & regular teams like Pakistan, New Zealand & West Indies not being able to make it to qualifier, which shows about the raising quality of the game by other countries than major seven or eight & it’s a very good sign for the game. At the same time on route to the finals, India defeated every other major country where cricket is predominantly played such as Australia & England, which were the current champions. And then, a sport is a sport, especially when you play in the finals of world level then it’s all about handling the pressure & when you represent country of 150 crores then the burden of expectations is more than you can even imagine & what you & me can do is, learn from that process of taking the pressure by those eleven players on the field, is my subject of sharing!

Before I come to the final game just a ride of the past for both competing teams, again not to bore you with details but to make you understand the mental condition or say pressure both the teams were carrying as that directly affects your performance. S. Africa has been always tagged as  “Chokers” as they were never been able to break the barrier of clearing Semi Finals of any World level cricket tournament while recently India is being tagged as “Chokers of Finals” as in last nearly thirteen years the Indian team has reached in five finals of the game in different format (Test, One-day &T 20) & has lost all of them! And two of the defeats were in the last one year only, making both teams desperate as well as nervous while approaching this final! And here the challenge begins…

While you are nervous while playing the finals as once again the unseen “demon of defeat” in the finals haunts you then at the same time the opponent team is desperate to win the final as they have already buried their demon by clearing the semifinal, making them an extremely dangerous opponent which S.Africa did prove one! And then recent  IPL , (please don’t ask what it is) has seen poor form of our captain as well vise captain as their respective league team ended up in the bottom of the league, putting them in extreme pressure of proving their selection itself in the team & on such background they were supposed to lead the team! Add to these things, the final was with a team whose many players were part of IPL & knew the game of every Indian player better than any other team, making us vulnerable on the surprise front, which is one more matter of concern. On top of it, our backbone player Virat Kohli showed poorest of the forms of his life scoring minimum in all the games before the finals & to such extent that demand was to drop him from the finals! This I shared to make you know what was the mindset of the team as this is what we have to study & learn from! In India as a Super Star of cricket or of movies if you are loved more than the God for your success then you are hailed for your failure more than a devil too, that pressure also every player was carrying!

I will share the kind of scene on streets that evening so you will understand, just few months back when India was playing final of World Cup of One Day cricket then every restaurant in the city (read as in the country) was packed advertising “Celebrate World Cup” with us types captions & when we lost that match it was like crashing the millions of parties at a time. So, this time even India was in finals, yet there was no hohalla or restaurants arranging screening of the final etc. because people knew what had happened in the last many such finals & nobody was ready to get their mood spoiled! This showed the mood of the entire country that they were not satisfied or happy just by their team reaching the finals but they wanted them to win this final & that’s a huge burden of expectations! Well, there were baiting (friendly baits of treats, of course) & in our badminton group I was the only one who baited on S.Africa as a winner & I justified my logic as, in the finals all that matters is temperament. I am not a sports therapist or psychologist but temperament means how you handle a situation when put under pressure & by me, our team has displayed a pattern of inability to handle the pressure of the finals in the past, so I baited on S.Africa team! And to my surprise (sweet one) I lost the bait as the Indian team displayed one of the best examples of temperament, individually as well as a team!

I won’t bother you with figures & score-cards as we all know it & not with detailing of the incidences also, as we all have lived but what I will mention is the way that battle (battle with self-demons) has been fought & what we should take from it & not just the world cup! I have watched the match (replay) in last five days nearly twenty times & what I watched is, the game from where we lost first three early wickets to how we handled the middle overs & the S.African team’s batting’s last six overs, as we all go through a cycle where we are at high & suddenly things started going wrong to such extent that we decide to give up or do something foolish thing, which Indian team didn’t, is my subject of sharing. The way Virat Kohli put his head down after we lost three wickets & decided that he won’t give his wicket if that was one way to learn then from the other side Axar Patel & Shivam Dubey attacked bowling knowing the importance of Virat holding on other side, this is teamwork guys, worth watching! Every member of the team knew his role in the game & tried to stick to that & let me tell you this has happened in every earlier game too yet a structure is tested to its worst in the storm & not in regular breeze, so this was special as this was final, a storm! Like some see-saw game, the match tilted on the Indian side when S.Africa started batting with early wickets & less run rate in the first few overs, again the S African team turned the tide to such an extent that at the last stage of the game victory for them remained a mere formality!

On my badminton WhatsApp group message flashed, “Sanjay Congratulations,” means, you won the bait, everybody thought India is going to lose! But that’s where my joy of losing the bait started as this Indian team proved me wrong by showing something which they themselves haven’t been able to do in the recent past, temperament, they found it & loads of it. Every single person of the team refused to accept the defeat, the body-language of the captain was not of a person who could see the defeat ahead but of someone who is seeing beyond that defeat & knew he can defeat the defeat! They were not afraid of losing because they were not thinking about losing but only of winning the game, this is my biggest learning from team India’s T20 WC win! I could see that in every action of each player, may it be bowling, fielding, throwing, cheering up other team-mates, they were faces of men who were not ready to back up, that’s temperament & that’s my best take away from this win. I have watched those last four overs of the match now for the twentieth time like I used to read M-3  (ask any engg student its longform), every-time trying to grasp the right sense of what I am watching & every time I am a new person after watching it. It was a sheer display of grit, dedication, team spirit & not losing focus from the destination which was the World Cup! I deliberately not used the term skill in above list as nobody ever doubted any of the player’s skill as without that you won’t be paying in that team which has reached to the finals, so it was not about the skill, it was using it at its best at the time when it's needed most, which team India did! May it be catching by the fielders as there was a catch which can be perfectly fit in the movie Matrix or may it bowling by bowlers when the pressure which makes your movements slow like you are walking in knee depth ice or the captain whose brain must have been numb by fighting the negative thoughts of defeat which was looming over from all directions yet was taking right decisions of making every player know his position & responsibility; seriously, my eyes get wet even writing these lines with emotions, so they did also when I have watched those last four overs by mere feeling the presence of the immense pressure on that ground! The pressure was so much that it could travel through the screen of the mobile & reach out to me the way they give you 5-D experience of a movie, this was watching a 6-D drama which can touch your mind also, imagine what must it be doing to the actors (read as players) on the field, is my subject of sharing! Here, many people compared Suryakumar's catch as well some innings with other such incidents but I differ to do so as every game is different & special, though some are more special, so was this, because of the pressures from the past, you can say that!

Guys, we have won the T20 world cup but more than that we (read as team India) have won over our own fears, that's the biggest gain of this cup is what I think. In life also we have to face ups & downs but not losing the focus as every up meet with the down & vice-versa, so be ready to face the down & ride over it. At the same time if we can master our mind then you learn that it's ok to be afraid & feel the pressure; important is, what you do in such situation, as that will define you what you are really! I thanked to S.Africa’s team too, as they gave us opportunity to face our extreme fears & tested our ability to face them by being a worthy opponent & a line of our Bollywood dialogue for them, “picture abhi baki hai mere dost’’, so better luck next time; once again thanks a ton both teams, for helping me to become a better team-mate, just by watching this final!

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Sanjay Deshpande 

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