“Age is a case of mind over matter; if you don’t mind, it
doesn’t matter”... Satchel Paige.
Leroy
Robert "Satchel" Paige was an American Negro league baseball and
Major League Baseball pitcher who became a legend in his own lifetime by being
known as perhaps the best pitcher in baseball history & no wonder such
words can come from an athlete only whose life has been other name of game! How
rightly Piege has put about the age & on my own birthday what better words
I could have chosen! As there were times in each of ours childhood as well teen age
when we used to celebrate birthdays thinking we are growing up & soon will
be able to take our own decisions. And suddenly one day we realize we have
grownup & then we get hit with the hard fact that life was far better &
happy when somebody else used to take decisions for us! I think what we miss most when we have grownup is the innocence
& care-freeness within but it’s not lost in the years, it’s very much with
us. When we
grow up we think innocence is excess baggage & often lock it up under the
tag of maturity & a birthday is the day to find the key to unlock that
innocence within & be carefree to feel the beauty of life around us!
Actually,
its recently I started writing on my birthdays too not just as self dialogue but to share the
same with my sons as I think some day they will ask me the question, “Baba,
what things you yourself have been practicing, of you told us to do?’ And
having dialogue with our own self is one thing I keep telling them as the
person who doesn’t tries to communicate with himself, how he will be able to communicate
with others? Though often I used to wonder what to write to my own self as it’s
easy to share something with readers or audience but how many of us ever tried
making our own self our reader or audience? Many will think this is madness as
only psychic persons speaks with themselves, is what we have been told since
our childhood & later on when we grow up (does we truly is different question).
Then we are so busy putting our views forwards or listening to others that we
have forgotten that there is something named dialogue with self. Now, many will
ask how to do it, as Meditation & Dhyan are out of capacity for most
(though it’s very much doable for anyone but people just don’t try it), so what
a person should do to have dialogue with self? Well, try doing things which you
like to do for yourself & not for the sake of posting on FB or show off to
others, is the simple answer. Now, the next question is, how I will know what I
like to do for myself? My answer is, keep trying things which will make you
genuinely happy & at peace (this one has to define for himself) & those
things may be weird or crazy as someone might like to go to top terrace of his
building at night & just keep watching
stars or someone might like to paint abstract paintings (which people may laugh at) or someone might
be happy by singing Yo Yo Honey Sing’s silly rap; anything can make you happy
as its your happiness so you only ought to define it! I have tried by my own way & then I came to know that I like
writing, I like walking alone on unknown streets & the list of things
making me happy goes on as I have started realizing happiness can’t be
restricted to some defined acts but its related to every act, just one should
know to become happy in first place!
I am die-hard fan of cartoon movies & one of my favorite cartoon movies which is
all time classic also, is “Kung Fu Panda”. It’s a character in the form of
carefree Panda who is destined to be a Kung Fu Warrior & who himself
doesn’t believes that he has any capacity to become so, yet in the end he
becomes greatest warrior of his time. It’s not just about Kung Fu i.e. one of
the ancient martial arts but it’s a journey of self understanding. Best
part is, Po has shown having troubled past as he has been haunted by the
question, who he is (most of us never reach to that level in itself) but one
moment he realized he is just a Panda & that’s the truth which he has to
sink in as Kung Fu Warrior & all other things are just shell & doesn’t matter
much! But the character I love most in the movie isn’t the cute Po but his Guru
i.e. Master Shifu, an aged martial art teacher with philosophical base &
who believes the journey to become a great warrior is always inside out! All
the time he is shown chanting the word “Inner Peace” & yet when he
understands his pupil, the carefree, innocent, childish even a times foolish looking
Panda, has achieved Inner Peace before than his master, Shifu bows in-front of
his own pupil & requests to teach
him Inner Peace & at that moment he also achieves Inner Peace! As all the
time he was searching a key to Inner Peace & when he sees Po achieving it,
Shifu realizes he has locked that Inner Peace & he only has to unlock it!
Well,
we all are destined to become something though our childhood fascinations were
something different & very few are lucky enough to become what they have dreamed of being in their childhood. Speaking about myself I don’t exactly
remember what I wanted to become as right from rail-way engine driver to police
inspector, there has many tracks which my train of dreams shifted but today
when I look back after becoming what I have become, I feel no regret & I
think, I have achieved some shade of Inner Peace, if not fullest! Because now
nearly completing 49 years when I look around, rarely I see happy faces which
consider themselves as grownups. Agreed, growing up is never easy but does that
necessarily means we need to be sullen face & always keep worrying about
something or other? We have created so many barriers around us in the name of
career, success, competition, position, stability, and progress that somewhere
we have forgotten what living means! One may say, it’s easy to say these words
when you have a full stomach, especially on financial stability which is
foremost criteria of success in our society but what about so many around who
has hundreds of worries & which are facts of life? Indeed life is difficult
but most needs are self created is also a fact rather growing up is,
understanding difference between need & greed is what I am learning. In a
way calling successful is like tag of Kung Fu Warrior, isn’t it? Today if I start
considering myself as greatest warrior just because I happen to defeat my
opponents till now, then that’s making of biggest fool to me by
myself! This “till now” is very important & then you know how much
vulnerable you are is what I have realized & I think the day you realize it
then you are above any tag as today it you defeating others but tomorrow
someone better than you will be defeating you. As no defeat is last & no victory is final, unless it
happened to be with your own self, is the truth such movies has tried to teach
me. I said tried to teach me because yet I have to digest this philosophy fully
but this understanding tells me that I am slowly but surely growing up.
And when
now you must be starting to understand how we make the simplest act of entering
in to dialogue with our self difficult then there are the biggest hurdles like
FB & Whatsap, which we call social media. Man is a social animal but only to
boost or flaunt his achievements is bitter truth; rather, in the process of
checking the likes we got for our post we have forgotten what “I” in “Me” like by myself! Agreed, like any
medium if used wisely then social media also can be put to great use; as do mind, it’s just like a knife in kitchen
which is useful to cut the vegetables or fruits but the same knife can be used
to slit someone’s throat or suicide also! The worst curse present generation has got is to live in a
virtual world which runs on likes or dislikes & comments; defeating the
very purpose of sharing or dialogue. I am happy that though I also use FB &
Whtsap but I have real living friends too, with whom I can share my life over a
cup of tea & that’s more valuable for me as that sharing makes me a better human
being. My sons, always remember you may
have thousand of persons to praise you for your achievements & there will
be more than thousand who despise you for what you are behind your back but you
will be lucky if you get even one person who will tell you on your face what
you are & I am luckiest as I have more than one such person around! And for
them also you having dialogue with yourself is very important as to understand
who your true friends are, you need to know what you are truly in first place!
Finally,
what we become doesn’t necessarily can go in hand with what we wanted to become
but one thing is sure no one can stop you becoming a good human being. And if
you have become one such then it hardly matters what you have become & same
is applicable vice versa as if you have become ruler of the world but failed to
become a good human being, then does your kingdom has any worth, ask this
question to yourself as there lays the key to inner peace!
Lastly, I will say
some journeys are like walking in desert with no signage of directions or mile
stones to make you know distance you traveled. All you have to do is believe
your intuition & follow the direction what your heart says & keep
walking, without missing to enjoy the beauty of the sand dunes along. Journey
of life is one such; thanks for helping me in ageing like Master Shifu in Kung
Fu Panda, yet keeping that innocent Po in me bouncing, is what I will like to
tell all you my friends!
--
Sanjay Deshpande
Sanjeevani
Dev.
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Sir your thoughts guide us for peace of mind
ReplyDeletethanks a lot mahesh
DeleteSanjay it's so good to know you this way. Noble mind, noble soul and generous thoughts. may your tribe increase and may HIS BLESSINGS be with you always making you happy and filled with contentment. Warm wishes for the year ahead. Loved your writing. Makes so much sense in this 'Dog Eat Dog World'. PRAISE THE LORD.
ReplyDeletethanks arun for acknowledging my sharing ..i think important is what i gave to the world than what world has given to me!!
DeleteNice thought or shall I say nice vision
ReplyDelete:) thank you for sharing...