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Well, in life someday we all reach at a stage where we realize
our kids have their own ideas about life & these ideas doesn’t math with
our, especially most of my generation which is between 45-50 plus stage, is facing
this situation! And that way our this genre is extremely lucky as we have been
bought up when hours needed to spend just to tune in Radio Ceylon, on Wednesday
8 pm to listen Binka Geet Mala & now on one click of Gana.Com we can listen any song created in the history of Bollywood! One thing I have concluded by myself, one needs luck to come across
such cross section of life but one needs to be luckiest to survive to digest
this kind of exposure! That way this genre of today's which is born
post 90’s have pretty simple life as they have grown up seeing all the tech-gadgets from their birth & they are born in Inter Net era where everything
is available to everyone (except emotions), I don’t know it’s a boon or curse, as only time will
tell that!
The major problem this has created is how to communicate with
your kids who are now out of college or on the verge of completing their formal
education which we call a degree! As the only thing our parents didn’t teach us
is, to having dialogue with next genre; as neither we demanded nor our parents
felt need of it, when we were growing up! So this is one field which each of us
has to find his own way & I try to do it via movies, taking my kids along
with their friends to every cartoon, animation as well super hero movie as these
movies makes you & your kids come on a common platform & these
references of movies you watched together, you can use as a dialogue with this
genre. In one such I wrote to my son rohit, who was leaving to receive his MBA
degree from UK, sharing it as somewhere some Mom or Dad can share my feelings…
"Success
is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice
and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do"... Pele.
Dear dada,
No need to introduce this name to you as some things (read as some
names) cut across the time i.e. through generation & Pele is one such name
& that's why I chose his quote to write you when you are leaving to receive
your MBA Certificate at Bornmath, UK. I hope you remember what I have wrote you
when two years back you have left for your MBA & today when you are going
to get honored as MBA degree holder then also I will be sharing same feelings,
may be just the words are different. Beta as I said some things never change,
same as fairy tales of Disney, its characters change, heroes change, princes’
names change, villains change but the story remains same & so does the
moral of the story which is goodness always prevails over badness & love
can open any lock in the world! Same is with games also, even when I was not
born there was Pele & today you have Messi or Ronaldo as you idols but the
spirit of the game of Football is same & so is the stories of these great
names; now tell me how can my feelings towards you will change or my sharing!
Dada, I would have loved to accompany you on this tour & so
would have your mom (rather most) & rohan & aaji, abbu & neeta atay
& bhikya , ketki too, but sometimes everything is good but the timing isn’t,
so are these times. I might be even cancelling my outing with rohan due to some
11th hour events, nothing to worry just my presence is need here more, in case
& you know I give highest priority to my duties & responsibilities than
my personal pleasures as that's what makes you a man of character! Just
remember getting a degree certificate in your hands doesn’t make you an MBA or
any professional guy but how you use that paper i.e. knowledge it has got along,
will define what you become eventually. One classic example is our beloved Po
the Panda's Scroll in Kung Fu Panda, you remember that scroll for which Tai
Lung is ready to fight entire world as he believes it contains ultimate
knowledge of Kung Fu by which he can conquer the world; interestingly, the
scroll is nothing but an empty piece of paper & this Po understoods &
himself becomes Dragon Warrior! Well, I don't say knowledge or education is
useless but it’s the application of that knowledge is what matters, never
forget it! And the more knowledge you acquire the more humble & hungry for
the knowledge you should become as that's what education is meant for!
And one more thing
whatever knowledge you have got via this MBA degree, never forget when it’s you
receiving that degree on stage wearing the black gown, many faces in the
background are the barer of that scroll which you will be proudly displaying!
All these faces will never say they have won it too, but you must not forget
that no success is individuals & most people have failed miserably even
after being successful as they thought they only deserve their success! Everybody has his
or hers share of sacrifice & by walking on that share only you have reached
to that dais on Bornmath Versity's stage & none of these people will expect
anything from you in return just they will want to see you understanding real
success! Life has been good to most of us & now all that counts is how we
will be sharing that goodness to not so lucky people around & there are
many of them, use your MBA degree for that more than your own-self! You are lucky to be able to do things what you want to do
& chose a path which is hard but you can afford it & as your father
what more I can wish but to see you reaching your destination & yet be
happy, the later part is more important for me as I know many who has reached
to their destination but only at the cost of their happiness & peace!
Well, I don’t know whether my words has reached to you or not
even if you may have read them but just do mind when you will be handed over
that Scroll of MBA on stage & your batch-mates clapping around,
listen to the loudest clap which will be of your father & among the
hundreds of faces waving below one with biggest smile (and tears in eyes) will
be mine too; just wave back with a smile & it will reach me!
Love
Baba
--
Sanjay Deshpande
Sanjeevani Dev.
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